Teach Us: How Sexual Violence Is Normalised

The statistics around sexual assault are hard to stomach, but we've all got the power to curb them.

In this episode, host Anthony Stefanos is joined by Angie Wan, Gina Martin and Emerson Brophy to explore how sexual violence has become normalised — and what we can do about it. From locker room talk and rape jokes to disbelief and victim-blaming, they examine how seemingly small moments build a culture where sexual harm is downplayed, denied, or straight-up dismissed.

Together, they unpack the “rape culture pyramid” — a concept that explains how normalised disrespect, objectification and entitlement can lay the foundations for more serious harm. They also tackle common myths: like the idea that most sexual assault can't happen in relationships, that false accusations are common, or that men can’t be victims.

The group shares personal reflections, hard truths and practical ways to shift the culture — from how we speak to our mates, to how we respond when someone discloses harm, to how we reflect on our own learned behaviours. It’s about being honest, open, and proactive — not perfect.

Whether you’ve been impacted by sexual violence, want to be a better ally, or just feel confused about how to navigate these conversations, this episode offers clarity, insight, and tools for change.

FEATURING:

Anthony Stefanos:

Host of the Teach Us Consent podcast series, Anthony is a presenter known for guiding bold, honest conversations with empathy and courage.

Angie Wan:

Angie is the Co-Founder and CEO of Consent Labs, an organisation delivering comprehensive consent and respectful relationships education in schools.

Gina Martin:

A multi-award winning gender equality activist, writer, speaker and facilitator who educates, advocates and inspires.

Emerson Brophy:

A singer, songwriter, and content creator based in Australia. His songs are often commentary on social and political events.